Monday, March 22, 2010

Emotional Blackmail

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Antoinette:

Pm's from house by the see


laffin sent these to him

2nd message is one he has sent to Amber also

LAFFIN ASSASSIN

From Housebythesea To Antoinette, Today at 9:10 am
Antoinette,

I am going to forward on to you the messages I have left for Ambersuz, and which she hasn't picked up yet. Hopefully, they will be self-explanatory, especially if you read the two threads concerned.

I only joined here quite recently, and I will not tolerate someone's blatant attempts to bully me or others. I have given Laffin no cause for any complaint, nor have I indicated any sympathy with my McCann brigade - far from it !

If you would like to start by reading those messages, perhaps?

Thank you
HBTS

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LAFFIN ASSASSIN

From Housebythesea To Antoinette, Today at 9:12 am
As discussed

Dear Ambersuz,

I wish to complain about the above poster, who appears to have decided to single me out for his unwelcome attentions, starting with some very odd private messages, and continuing this evening with a series of allegations, seemingly about my motives for being here. Please look at these two threads

http://missingmadeleine.forumotion.net/main-maddie-thread-latest-news-f1/rosiepops-at-it-again-t9051.htm

http://missingmadeleine.forumotion.net/main-maddie-thread-latest-news-f1/ze-list-t9087.htm

Now, I don't know what his problem is. He seems to be under the impression that anyone who can string a sentence together is some kind of 'mole', which is beyond paranoid, frankly. His behaviour is rude and abusive in the extreme, and if he thinks he's bullying me off the forum he can think again.

I only joined here recently. I've been enjoying posting, and cannot see where I could have possibly given offence. I am very disappointed that Laffin seems to believe it's okay to behave in this fashion, whilst at the same time criticising other forums for the way they treat people.

I am forwarding to you the interchange of private messages between he and I . As you will see, I became alarmed by the tone and asked him to take it up with yourself if he had a problem.

I'd like to know what you intend to do about this, please. I appreciate he has been here a lot longer than me, but that does not give him the right to attempt to bully me off the forum for no other reason than his own groundless paranoia.

Thank you

HBTS

19 comments:

  1. Antoinette again:

    AS DISCUSSED

    From Housebythesea To Antoinette, Today at 9:13 am
    These are the unsolicited private messages, as discussed

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    Re: avatar pic

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    From Laffin Assasin To Housebythesea, Sat 06 Mar 2010, 3:02 am
    A Musician I know, Vin Garbutt, lives very close to that house, if I'm correctly identifying it.

    Now I'd hate to see anyone intimidated, but if they were, ?????

    mind you, in the big scheme of McScamm, I don't count !!

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    Housebythesea Sat 06 Mar 2010, 9:03 am

    Laffin Assasin wrote:A Musician I know, Vin Garbutt, lives very close to that house, if I'm correctly identifying it.

    Now I'd hate to see anyone intimidated, but if they were, ?????

    mind you, in the big scheme of McScamm, I don't count !!

    To be honest, I haven't a clue what you are on about, or what you mean by 'intimidated'

    I used a random picture from google images for my avatar and now I am being quizzed about it ?

    Can you take it up with admin if you have some sort of problem, please

    Housebythesea

    Laffin Assasin Sat 06 Mar 2010, 3:02 am
    A Musician I know, Vin Garbutt, lives very close to that house, if I'm correctly identifying it.

    Now I'd hate to see anyone intimidated, but if they were, ?????

    mind you, in the big scheme of McScamm, I don't count !!


    Laffin Assasin

    Housebythesea Sat 06 Mar 2010, 1:55 am

    Laffin Assasin wrote:Does it ?

    Can you expand on that ?

    expand how ? It looks similar to that part of the coast, I think

    Housebythesea

    Laffin Assasin Sat 06 Mar 2010, 1:45 am
    Does it ?

    Can you expand on that ?


    Laffin Assasin

    Housebythesea Fri 05 Mar 2010, 11:47 pm
    Laffin Assasin wrote:
    [quote]Is that picture from Boulby Cleveland ?

    Near the Mast ?[unquote]

    Er.....I have absolutely no idea ! I got it from google images

    It does look rather like there, though, now you come to mention it !

    Housebythesea

    Laffin Assasin Fri 05 Mar 2010, 6:51 pm
    Is that picture from Boulby Cleveland ?

    Near the Mast ?

    Laffin Assasin

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  2. Antoinette:

    Finally I have asked Laffin to explain all his cryptic clues he posted during the night in the link below

    http://missingmadeleine.forumotion.net/the-leisure-centre-tlc-f163/basic-bianary-numbers-t9086.htm

    I'm fed up with him making digs at anyone he might suspect of being a troll. Laffin is a loose cannon and is in my opinion one of the people who will be the cause of this forum being closed down. I do not like him, I've never liked him and wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him. I know a lot of you have admiration for laffin but he is dangerous and if not put in his place soon someone will put in one complaint too many & the forum will be shut to the ground.

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  3. FSores:

    It's true Antoinette. He can't do things this way. He has already been an headache when at the old 3As, and I was told Bren and Co. had to clean his tracks. He's taking this too personally when he shouldn't. One of the things Laffin should be aware is that he is NOT the only target (if he's really one), under the radar of those evil folks. For the known reasons, Bren, Amber and Joana Morais are the prime targets because they hold the forums. Then, they want to silence and go after some posters for different reasons. I also am one of their targets due to the place I work - they found it after hacking the old 3As PMs - though not one of the prime. I know they won't stop till all the forums are silenced, but, definatelly Laffin needs to stop being cryptic and playing these charades.

    One of the things we can be sure is that there's one "respected" poster, posing as "anti" (I hate this expression), who is working directly with the Twats, or, in the worst case scenario, one of them directly - no doubt about it, but Laffin is taking this too far and needs to calm down.

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  4. Here comes the deal.

    Antoinette:

    Amber I am calling it straight here. Either Laffin goes or I do. I really do not want to v
    be associated with the likes of him any longer. You can let me know your decision and I will take it whichever way you decide. I will hold no grudge against you or the decent forum members on here but after what laffin has said lately I cannot sit back and be part of his charade any longer.

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  5. Notice the unladylike language here, not for the first or last time either.

    Ambersuz:

    What the fuck is happening to this forum and its members lately? Sorry but I'm not feeling too well and emotional blackmail is not what I need right now.

    Firstly this Housebythesea hasnt sent me any pm's or emails....

    Secondly Laffin is getting on my nerves and I've told him on the phone before to cool it with the members.....

    Thirdly I've had enough of all this paranoia about who is who just based on peoples instincts....give me proof then I'll act on it.....

    This forum is becoming a war zone and I've a good mind to close it for a week to let everyone cool off and give me time to take out the members comments who have left or been banned up to date and those who keep saying they are leaving! I dont have enough hours in the day to tidy up and make this forum MY life as I have a life outside of this FFS!

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  6. Antoinette:

    He has gone too far already. Amber I'm logging off. Can you email me & let me know your decision please.

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  7. Ambersuz:

    Sorry Antoinette I'm not making decisions for grown adults nor will emotional blackmail work with me...ask Tosca!

    I'll go and deal with Laffin my way......

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  8. Ambersuz:

    I wont be held to ransom...especially when all Antoinette had to do was ban Laffin....I gave all you mods all the power to act as you see fit and ban whoever you think should be banned....

    I will not make decisions for Antoinette and nor will I be piggy in the middle for anyone!

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  9. Ambersuz:

    OK I will make this clear once and for all for ALL the mods...........you dont have to ask my permission to ban anyone....just do it but dont expect me to do it or make the decision for you or make me chose between me and a mod as that gets my blood boiling and I stick to my guns!

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  10. Laffin: is he just the lonely, ugly loser with a drinking problem that he seems to be or is he actually that boring as a psycho? That sad sack has all the credibility of a Trekkie. Born a loser, end a loser, probably with liver failure on the taxpayer's tab.

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  11. he must have some secret charm that no one else can see, slumy seems devoted to the sicko freak.
    Must have fancied a bit of rough in her twilight years.

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  12. Claudia79 said:

    "You're all driving me crazy. There's a reason why I'm a Language and Literature girl, you know?"

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  13. well, they do say Claudia 69 is a cunning linguist, LOL

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  14. It's all being discussed in the MM mods forum in a thread called "Here's your proof".

    I may pass it to Eddie later.

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  15. Ohhhh can hardly wait to see what s*ite they have concocted!! LMAO!

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  18. What you playing at, anon? There are only a few posts on that thread.

    :)

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  19. I have a life outside of this FFS! Ambersux

    Yeah, I;ll say.

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